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Is it wrong to feel sorry for a narcissist?
If you are a caring compassionate person, it is natural to feel sorry for others who suffer, including the narcissist. If you’re especially empathetic, it is your “normal” to feel others’ pain and to try to caretake them on the road toward peace and happiness.
Why do I feel sorry for the narcissist?
You unwittingly believe their lies. Having empathy, and believing their lies, you feel sorry for them. Because the pathology of the narcissist programs you to feel that way. Having empathy creates in us a very strong desire to fix the problems others have.
What does a narcissist think when you apologize to them?
Narcissists regard any kind of hurt as cause for retaliation and revenge. If someone apologizes to them (often in a misguided attempt to end conflict), narcissists see it as proof of their superiority and may take the opportunity to further punish that person for whatever s/he may or may not have done wrong.
What happens to a narcissist when they get old?
Aging itself can bring about a withering, if not bursting, of the narcissistic bubble. You’re no longer a fresh young thing and are starting to develop wrinkles, bags, sags, or a gray or bald head.
Why do I feel guilty for leaving a narcissist?
Those leaving addicts often feel guilty as they fear the removal of stability and support may lead the addict into a downward spiral in the addiction. There is always the thought that he/she just needs a bit more time to change, or that somehow you are responsible for creating the situation to facilitate that change.
Does a narcissist deserve compassion?
Like other people, if a narcissist reaches a point in life where they are open to exploring the impact they are having in creating problems for themselves and others, they deserve compassion and support in creating positive changes.
Can narcissists get worse with age?
Unlike fine wine or cheese, narcissists don’t get better with age. They don’t mellow, become wise, or develop late-onset self-awareness. Their personalities intensify, and without their ability to control others, they become bitter, defensive, and bossy.