How do therapists deal with resistance to change?
Quick tips
- “Stay out of the ‘expert’ position,” Mitchell says.
- “Don’t collude with clients’ excuses,” Wubbolding says.
- “When you encounter resistance, slow the pace,” Mitchell says.
- “Don’t argue,” Wubbolding says.
- “Focus on details.
- Leave blame out of it, Wubbolding says.
What happens to clients who drop out of therapy?
Clients receive incomplete treatment, and are left to face their mental illnesses alone. These clients may return to therapy repeatedly over many years, stretching out their recovery, and increasing the burden on the system. Or—even worse—they may never return. Therapists often feel burnt out by client dropout, and being powerless to help.
How do you terminate a client who won’t come to therapy?
If the client will not come to therapy sessions, send them a termination notice using their preferred method of communication—such as email or U.S. mail—and ideally, via several communication channels. If there is another practical issue, present it to the client in objective, non-stigmatizing terms and consider referring them to another therapist.
When is it appropriate to terminate a therapy session?
When terminating with a client who has difficulty processing rejection. When terminating with a client because of a poor fit. Therapy should ideally have clear and specific goals. When a client achieves their goals, it may be appropriate to transition them to a new therapist or to terminate therapy altogether.
What happens when a client is unhappy with a therapist?
When a client is unhappy with the therapist’s services, objects to the therapist’s philosophy, or accuses the therapist of wrongdoing, the client may terminate the relationship. If the client does not, the therapist must assess whether the relationship can continue.