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Why am I so jealous of his past?
Jealousy can often come from feelings of inadequacy. ‘ At the root of this is probably a childhood experience of not feeling special, she says. Perhaps you were competitive with your siblings, or felt your parents were more preoccupied with each other than with you.
Should couples talk about past relationships?
Sometimes it’s best to leave the past behind you. You might feel awkward discussing exes with your new partner, but having an honest conversation with them about past relationships is perfectly healthy. It can bring you closer together and help you to better understand your significant other, and vice versa.
How to deal with your girlfriend’s or boyfriend’s ex?
Control your anger and get a grip over your emotions. Sit back and let time play its tricks so that you can observe how the situation unfolds. You acted like a mature person when you decided to be calm about dealing with your girlfriend’s or boyfriend’s ex.
How to talk to your partner about your ex?
Conversations about exes should be quick and factual. Trust what your partner has to say and move on. Jealousy for your girlfriend’s or boyfriend’s ex can easily turn into suspicion and doubt if emotions are not kept in check.
What to do if you bump into your partner’s ex?
Never excuse yourself if you and your partner are together and you bump into his or her ex. It will be a clear indicator of your fear or insecurity of the ex. Just go about on your way as a couple if you are unsure how to behave or act in this awkward situation.
What to do when Your Girlfriend’s Boyfriend barges into your date?
If you’ve only been dating a girl for a few weeks or if you’ve just started dating her, and her boyfriend barges right into your beautiful date, don’t stand up and push him away or try to take control of the situation. You’re not yet such a big part of her life to control it for her. Just sit down calmly and let her do all the talking.