Sage-Tips

How do you survive your twenties?

Here are the best tips on how to spend your 20s so you don’t live in regret later.

1. Learn to accept and love yourself first.
2. Learn to say no with confidence.
3. Take more risks.
4. Pull the trigger.
5. Turn your weaknesses into strengths.
6. Learn to negotiate with politeness.
7. Forgive yourself.
8. Don’t compare yourself to others.

How do I know what to do with my life?

8 Things to Remember When You Don’t Know What to Do with Your…

1. It’s Okay You Can’t Figure out the Whole Future.
2. Try to Be Comfortable with Discomfort.
3. Life Is Uncertain, Go with It.
4. Overcome Distractions and Stop Procrastinating.
5. Ask Yourself Questions.
6. Volunteer or Shadow Someone.
7. Save Up.
8. Answer the Door.

How do you be myself when I don’t know who I am?

If You Don’t Know How To Be Yourself, Read This.

1. Find your passion. My little brother has no passion, but he’s got likes.
2. Be fearless. Fears are weaknesses.
3. Be kind to yourself.
4. Accept failure.
5. Dream.
6. Read.
7. Surround yourself with good people.
8. Go against the grain.

Do you need to figure out your life?

In short, you don’t need to figure life out just because you feel confused. You have a ring of clarity around you, but in order to see further ahead, you have to move forward, you have to take action. Move in the direction that feels the most magnetic.

Do you need an answer to your life path?

If we’re talking about your life path, you don’t need an answer right away. You just think you do. You only need to experiment with life. You think you need an answer because you think a wrong step will ruin your life. But a sure-fire way to ruin your life is to try and figure it out, to try and overanalyze everything.

How do you plan out your whole life?

You can’t plan out your whole life. You can decide on a direction, sure, but then you have to come back to this moment, and take action from here. I like to use the example of using a GPS in a car. It gives you instructions step by step, not all in one go. So what I do is move in the direction that feels the most magnetic.

Why were the rules of life created?

The rules were created to keep you distracted, worried, and complacent. Better they have you live in existential angst over meaningless status markers than really figure out what to do with your life. Better they have you keeping up with the Joneses than trying to figure out what really matters to you.