Sage-Tips

How do you know someone is taking advantage of you?

Here are 7 signs that you’re being taken advantage of in a friendship.

1. They don’t listen to you, but always expect you to listen to them.
2. They only want to hang out when it’s convenient for them.
3. They’re constantly asking you to do favors for them.
4. They only reach out when they need help.

What to do when your mom walks in on you making out?

Talk It Out: Let’s say your mom walked in on you and your S.O. making out. Once you get over the awkwardness, it’s important to address that it happened. Some parents will completely avoid the topic, while others will forbid you from seeing them again.

How do I deal with a difficult mother?

There are a lot of good replies here: appealing to your father, trying to have an honest conversation with your mother, and talking to a counsellor are all things you should do first. Most likely your mom is just cranky about something (like not having enough free time of her own), or is setting her expectations impossibly high.

How can I deal with my mom’s expectations of Me?

When your counselor feels they have a good grip on the situation, they can meet with your parents. Another option is to appeal to your dad – who seems to understand that your mom has unrealistic expectations – to start family therapy. A specialist might be needed here to get to the root (s) of the problem and effect some change.

How do I tell my parents that I’m Pregnant?

Here’s one: At dinner one evening, you can say you have a serious announcement. Then tell your mom and dad that you’re pregnant. You’re really sorry you slipped up, but it will all be OK, not to worry, because you’re in love and you plan to marry the father.

Should I talk to my mother on the phone?

You can’t please your mother. Nor can you predict how she is going to react to you. This must be crazy-making. I suggest that you decrease the frequency of contact that you have with your mother and that you set clear limits with her. If she becomes intensely emotional or critical on the phone then put an end to the interaction.