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How do you deal with a stubborn sister?
How to Deal with Annoying, Difficult, and Disrespectful Siblings, According to 7 Experts
- Serenity now and peace be mine.
- Take time to respond, rather than react.
- Stay calm in volatile situations.
- Suspend your disbelief.
- Know your triggers.
- See their behavior as an opportunity for self-growth.
- Common ground.
How do you get your sister to say yes?
Tell your sister how her actions are making you feel. Make sure she knows that you are serious and not joking around with her. Be inviting and relaxed when you approach your sister to talk. When you want to talk with your sister, say “I would really appreciate it if we could talk for a few minutes.”
How can I help my sister who is having trouble taking advice?
Most people have a hard time taking advice from someone unless they feel that you have listened to and understood them first. Practice active listening, and hold back from giving advice or talking about yourself while your sister lets out her feelings.
How can I get my sister to listen to me?
Your sister will be much more likely to listen to you if you’ve taken the time to connect with her. Invite her to see a movie with you, take her shopping or just hang out together. If you see something small you think she’d like — her favorite candy bar, a poster of her favorite celebrity — buy it for her, or at least tell her about it.
What should I do when my sister complains about her children?
What your sister wants most is to feel heard, so when she complains about her children or friends or boss, the best thing you can do is validate what she’s saying, but in a particular way. Instead of just saying, “Oh, that’s too bad that your children don’t call enough,” your job is to over-validate her position.
How can I help my sister cope with her breakup?
Practice active listening, and hold back from giving advice or talking about yourself while your sister lets out her feelings. You can mirror back her emotions while she’s talking, saying things like “Wow, that must have been really tough,” or “Ugh, I hate it when that happens.”