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How do I get my mom to stop commenting about my weight?
If you’re not very close to her anyway, just tell her to piss off and ask what was her weight at your age. Tell her that you’re a perfectly fine and healthy woman, and if she doesn’t like it, she’s free to make another daughter. Also, stop caring about what she says.
How mothers affect their daughters body image?
But mothers who are unhappy with some feature of their body or personality can produce daughters who see themselves through the same distorted mirror. For example, mothers who constantly talk about how fat they are are more likely to produce daughters who feel fat as well—even if neither is overweight.
Why does my mom always tell me that I’m Too Fat?
Many of your female classmates are on diets and may already have eating disorders because they have been told they are too fat. Your mom might think that she is helping you by telling you that you are fat. She might be worried about your becoming unhealthy and overweight.
How do I write a letter to my mom about being fat?
I would like you to write your mom a letter. Pour out your heart in it and tell her how much you hurt inside because of what she says about you being fat. Ask her why she would continue to say such things if she knows that saying them makes you feel ashamed, very sad and lonely.
What should I do if my daughter thinks she’s overweight?
Saying things like, “Oh no you’re not,” or “Stop that,” won’t change the way your daughter views herself. If she thinks she’s overweight, arguing with her feelings could make the situation worse. Validate her feelings by saying something like, “I know it can be hard to feel good about your body sometimes.”
How to respond to fat shaming from parents or family members?
7 Ways To Respond To Fat Shaming From Your Parents Or Family Members 1. Take Care Of Yourself 2. Explain Your Point Of View & How Certain Comments Hurt 3. Don’t Be Afraid To Educate Them 4. Try To Sympathize 5. Be Patient 6. Disengage Entirely 7. Know It’s OK To Get Upset