Sage-Tips

How do you deal with a mother who is a gambler?

Suggestions include:

1. Inform the gambler of the negative impact that their gambling is having on you.
2. Don’t try to take control of the gambler’s life.
3. Let the gambler know you want to help.
4. Relate to them as an equal person.
5. Support them in their struggle, but don’t take on their burden.

How do you get someone to admit they have a gambling problem?

How to Talk to Someone About Their Addiction

1. Ask them if a problem exists.
2. Encourage them to get help. And remember, you can’t make someone ready to change — but discussing it is the first important step.
3. Be honest with them and gently talk about how their actions make you feel.

How do you spot a gambler?

1. A preoccupation with gambling and loss of interest in other aspects of life, such as ignoring family responsibilities and focusing only on the results of gambling.
2. Loss of control and being unable to manage impulsive urges to gamble even when the odds are against you.

What happens if you still live at home with a gambling addiction?

If you still live at home, you might be dealing with the loss or downsizing of your home, or the selling of possessions to pay off the debt of the family. We know this is a hard time, but you are not alone. Here are some things you should know: Your Parent’s Gambling Addiction? It’s Not Your Fault.

How can I help my family member with gambling problems?

If you’re ready to talk to a counselor or support group about your family member’s gambling, we are prepared to help you immediately. The NYS HOPEline offers help and hope to people every day. You can call toll-free anytime for assistance. Every call is anonymous and confidential. Call 1-877-8-HOPENY. We were unable to load Disqus Recommendations.

Is problem gambling a mental health issue?

Those are misconceptions – some of the myths of problem gambling. Just like addictions to drugs and alcohol, this addiction is a disease. It’s a mental health issue, and that is why it is so hard for problem gamblers to stop.

Is it my fault if my parents are problem gamblers?

It’s Not Your Fault. Many children of problem gamblers wonder if it was something they did that drove their parents toward their addiction. That is not the case. You did not cause it, and you cannot single-handedly stop it. Remove that pressure from yourself and do not feel guilty.