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What does an Enneagram 4 want?
Key Motivations: Want to express themselves and their individuality, to create and surround themselves with beauty, to maintain certain moods and feelings, to withdraw to protect their self-image, to take care of emotional needs before attending to anything else, to attract a “rescuer.”
What are Enneagram 4s attracted to?
Four’s are often attracted to people who are comfortable with their emotions and not afraid of expressing themselves. They need to feel safe to express their emotions and need a partner who is comfortable with this as well.
Who are Enneagram 4 most compatible with?
The most common Enneagram couples.
- Type Fours commonly pair well with Fives, Nines.
- Type Fives commonly pair well with Ones, Twos.
- Type Sixes commonly pair well with Nines.
- Type Sevens commonly pair well with Nines.
- Type Eights commonly pair well with Nines.
- Type Nines commonly pair well with Ones, Twos.
How do you motivate an Enneagram 4?
Fours are hyper-aware of their faults and deficiencies. Unlike other personality types. Because of this, you can motivate them by celebrating their strengths and identifying their unique contributions rather than criticizing their missteps. Fours can function well in various roles.
How do you show love on an Enneagram 4?
Enneagram Type 4 in Love
- A partner who is patient with the Four’s fluctuating emotions.
- Necessary guidance as a gentle nudge.
- Timely and honest feedback and advice.
- Sincere compliments and words of encouragement.
- An enduring sense of peace and gratitude.
How do you love an Enneagram 4?
How do you interact with Enneagram 4?
How to Support an Enneagram Four at Work
- Communicate how much you see and value their unique insight.
- Help them not over-rely on their emotional world, but to balance their emotions with critical thinking.
- Do not compare a Four to someone else.
- Tell them that you appreciate the personal touch that they bring.