Sage-Tips

Does my partner need to do anything if I have HPV?

The only real way to keep you or your partner protected against an HPV infection is to abstain from sexual contact. That’s rarely ideal or even realistic in most relationships, though. If you or your partner has a high-risk strain, you may need to discuss your options with your doctor.

Does positive HPV mean my partner cheated?

HPV persistence can occur for up to 10 to 15 years; therefore, it is possible for a partner to have contracted HPV from a previous partner and transmit it to a current partner. It is also possible the patient’s partner recently cheated on her; research confirms both possibilities.

Should I be embarrassed about HPV?

“Having HPV is nothing to be ashamed or embarrassed about. 8 in 10 people will have HPV in their lifetime. In most people the immune system will get rid of the virus without it causing any problems.” If you have questions or concerns about your HPV diagnosis, speak with a trusted healthcare professional.

How do I know when I got HPV from my partner?

There is no sure way to know when HPV was acquired i.e. from which partner it came from or how long ago. Sex partners who have been together tend to share HPV, even when both partners do not show signs of HPV. Having HPV does not mean that a person or their partner is having sex outside the current relationship.

Can I end my relationship because my partner has HPV?

Ending a relationship with someone because they have HPV is unnecessary. With vaccination and safer sex practices, you can continue to have a healthy sex life while avoiding stress and anxiety. With that said, most couples should work from the assumption that both they HPV, even if there’s no way to find out.

Does having HPV mean that I can’t have sex?

Having HPV does not mean that a person or their partner is having sex outside the current relationship. There is no treatment to eliminate HPV itself. HPV is usually dealt with by your body’s immune system.

How can I help my boyfriend who has HPV?

He has a process that he has to go through on his own. Encourage him to talk to his doctor or therapist, or find an HPV support group. Keep letting him know that you support him and aren’t making any judgments about him. Ask him if there’s any other way that you can be there for him.