Sage-Tips

How do you not let people negative comments affect you?

Here are five strategies to take back you power and reduce the detrimental impact negative people have in your life:

1. Guard Your Time.
2. Choose Your Attitude.
3. Refocus Your Thoughts.
4. Choose to Behave Productively.
5. Seek Out Positive People.

How do you use negative comments as motivation?

How to Turn Negativity into Motivation

1. Use your anger as energy.
2. Ask yourself why people are so negative toward you.
3. Think about how far you’ve come from the negativity.
4. Use those negative comments and thoughts as a challenge.
5. Use it as constructive criticism.

How do you deal with negative comments?

6 Tips for Handling Negative Feedback

1. Ask clarifying questions.
2. Know that negative feedback isn’t a personal attack.
3. Ask for feedback often.
4. Take time to process your emotions.
5. View the feedback from your critic’s point of view.
6. Determine whether the feedback is constructive or destructive.

How do you let go of nasty comments?

The process of letting it go

1. Self-compassion: When someone points out a mistake in a project you’ve been working on and they do this in a really unpleasant way, you feel hurt and embarrassed.
2. Other-compassion: Remind yourself that the person who hurt you was not doing a very good job at regulating their emotions.

How do I stop thinking negative comments?

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1. Have Daily Negative Thought Time.
2. Replace the Negative Thoughts.
3. Be Your Own Best Friend.
4. Write Instead Of Think.
5. Make A Conscious Effort To Find Things To Love, Like And Appreciate.
6. Ask Yourself Some Tough Questions.
7. Establish New Habits.
8. Stop Watching The Morning News.

How do you respond to negative comments from friends?

Here are the seven responses I use with people who always seem to have something negative to say.

1. “I’m sorry to hear that.
2. “Wow, that sucks.
3. “Ooh.
4. “If only [name] had the experience/wisdom/work ethic that you did!”
5. “Please, correct me if I’m wrong, but it sounds like you’re upset because…”
6. “Oh gosh.

How can you make a negative person more positive?

9 Helpful Tips To Deal With Negative People

1. 1) Don’t get into an argument.
2. 2) Empathize with them.
3. 3) Lend a helping hand.
4. 4) Stick to light topics.
5. 5) Ignore the negative comments.
6. 6) Praise the person for the positive things.
7. 7) Hang out in 3’s or more people.
8. 8) Be responsible for your reaction.

How do you deal with negative comments on your work?

Every time a negative comment comes your way hit back by writing a positive comment on someone else’s work. Go to a blog, social media, anyplace public and share some genuine positivity. You accomplish two things by doing this. One, you’re letting the universe know that you won’t accept negativity as your way of being.

How do I stop being so negative all the time?

Go to a blog, social media, anyplace public and share some genuine positivity. You accomplish two things by doing this. One, you’re letting the universe know that you won’t accept negativity as your way of being. And two, you will raise your self-esteem because being kind does that to a person.

How to deal with difficult or negative people?

10 Ways to Deal with Negative or Difficult People. 1 1. Resist the urge to judge or assume. 2 2. Dig deeper, but stay out of the hole. 3 3.Maintain a positive boundary. 4 4. Disarm their negativity, even if just for now. 5 5. Temper your emotional response.

How do you get out of a negative mindset?

Let it out and talk it over. Keeping negative thoughts that are starting to cloud your whole mind bottled up won’t help. So let them out. Talk the situation or your thoughts over with someone close to you. Just venting for a few minutes can often help you to see the situation in new light.

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