Sage-Tips

How do you get people to talk to you at the gym?

Be consistent – Working out at the same time each day is a great way to become familiar with other people on the same schedule. Compliment – There’s nothing bothersome or creepy about liking someone’s shoes. (Though probably lay off her pecs!) Smile – Smiling is an introvert’s best friend.

Is it rude to talk on the phone at the gym?

Generally speaking, talking on the phone at the gym violates standard gym etiquette. It goes without saying that phones equipped with cameras should be stowed while in locker rooms.

What do you say to your crush at the gym?

You’re busy, they’re busy, just make it brief to begin with – short and sweet. If things progress, you’ll get a feel for how the conversation is going. In fact, you could even say upfront: “I’ve got to get back to my workout in a second, but…” just to let them know that you aren’t going to drag the conversation on.

Is it okay to drop weights at the gym?

Dropping or Slamming Weights It can damage the equipment and distract other members, which clearly makes you a selfish and obnoxious exerciser. But beyond that, it’s also a clear indicator that you’re lifting more than you actually should.

Why can’t I talk to people at the gym?

Most people at the gym tend to have headphones in, or are busily trying to get through their hateful routines before returning home, where they can continue to not talk to anyone. Assume other gym goers are not paying that exorbitant monthly fee to have conversations with you.

Why doesn’t anyone talk to me?

If it seems like nobody talks to you, it’s worth considering the root of the problem. Let’s get into some of the common variables. Whether you realize it or not, standoffish body language may indicate to other people to stay away. On the other hand, if people perceive you as open and warm, they may feel more inclined to talk to you.

Is there such a thing as isolating yourself too much at the gym?

As much as the overarching rule here is No Talking, there is such a thing as isolating yourself too much. A gym is still a public space after all, so you can’t close your eyes, pump up the Drowning Pool, and pretend no one else exists.

Why am I not getting people to like me at work?

Maybe the people at your work or at your college prefer a different kind of company which you clearly are not. You cannot get them to like you. Moreover, people are busy with their own lives nowadays. Them behaving cold with you might not be a reflection on your being, but on their schedule.